The Razor’s Edge (2): The Ballad Of Lily And Lucy

Pleased to meet you. Hope you guess my name.

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Well I’ve tried before to tell her

Of the feelings I have for her in my heart

Every time that I come near her

I just lose my nerve as I’ve done from the start

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Well every little thing she does is magic

Everything she do just turns me on

And even though my life is almost tragic

Now I know my love for her goes on

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Do I have to tell a story

Of a thousand rainy days since we first met?

It’s a big enough umbrella

But it’s always me that ends up getting wet

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Every little thing she does is magic

Everything she do just turns me on

And even though my life is almost tragic

Now I know my love for her goes on

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I resolve to call her up

A thousand times a day

And ask her if she’ll marry me

In some old fashioned way

But my silent fears have gripped me

Long before I reach the phone

Long before my tongue has tripped me

Must I always be alone?

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“Every Little Thing She Does Is Magic”

The Police

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The above song is not a love song . It is yet another form of mind control used to program men in this artificial reality I’m beginning to call Westworld.

It’s a good probability Sting didn’t even write that song. Ghost In The Machine was a noted change from their previous work and one where Sting objected to the album cover – He didn’t want anything to “symbolize” the band (i.e., a police badge) and just wanted photos of themselves.

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Or perhaps it was due to something else he saw in a mirror:

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Every Little Thing She Does Is Magic is a song about a man being tested by Satana, the negative feminine “alter ego” of Mother Earth/Gaia I defined in Part 1.

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age of volcanoes post note: This post (and the prior of this series) wouldn’t have even been possible had it not been for the Celtic Rebel postulating that Lucifer/Satan is actually a female. Thanks Rebel.

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Further clarification about Satana is necessary because I feel there seems are two distinct manifestations of Satana in women: Lily and Lucy. Both of these personas periodically manifest in women to administer a test by Gaia for Her sons and daughters.

A test I myself may be given soon.

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To reiterate, our god is Gaia, not Jehova/Yaweh/Allah. She incarnated into this planet to spark life and create the physical forms which we inhabit to enjoy this physical plane and all the fruits Gaia/Mother Earth has to offer. (Be sure to thank Her today.)

However, Jehova has hijacked our paradise, turned us all into slaves (or his own personal lap dogs), and caused Mom to split into an alternate persona to wake up her sons and daughters with a little “tough love” (and weed out the ones who have forsaken Her and become the bitches of Jehova). 

Gaia loves us, Jehova does not. That’s why “Satan” has always seemed to be a “personal” god of soley humanity. There are no alien greys or reptilians in Hell, only humans. [However, I feel that “Hell” is not a creation of Satana because She’s been imprisoned there as well.]

Just know that Satana is doing what She’s doing out of love – She’s just being a bit harsh because there’s no tolerance for apathy or selfishness when Her body is being raped on a daily basis, and Her own children are being turned against Her.  

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Nonetheless, if there ever was a human female that Satana Herself manifested in, it would have to be a woman named [Believe it or not!]

Tura Satana:

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However, it’s not because of any evilness – she was just absolutely perfect for the lead role in the 1965 Russ Meyer epic: Faster, Pussycat! Kill! Kill!

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(Think Girls Gone Wild, but with murder.)

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age of volcanoes fun fact: Tura Satana was born in Japan in 1938 to mixed parents of Asian and Caucasian descent. Her family immigrated to America when she was very young. Because she started physically developing early, Tura was gang raped at age nine by five men who were never prosecuted. Fifteen years later she had mastered karate and aikido and subsequently tracked down and exacted revenge on each one of them. Due to her troubled youth she was sent to reform school, which just simply made her more badass.

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She married, then divorced, then went to Los Angeles with a fake ID and started modeling, sometimes nude. All this happened when she was 13 years old. Tura was a woman in control of her life.

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But who was Russ Meyer? He was a low budget Hollywood director who knew that one didn’t need to display a huge budget in order to sell tickets….

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The movies of Russ Meyer were labeled “sexploitation” films, but we shouldn’t fault him for that – the natural, bountiful beauty of woman is awesome, to put it succinctly. And Meyer always seemed to find the most perfect examples.

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And we certainly can’t fault him for his choice of his first wife – she’s very awesome:

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Yet somewhere along the way, Meyer (just like Hugh Hefner) decided to make men and women think that “natural” wasn’t enough….

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….that women needed to make themselves as sexually cartoonish as possible:

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(For the love of Gaia, please tell me this is photoshopped.)

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Strangely, Meyer was one of the first directors to give women dominant and more powerful roles than men.

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Yet all one needs to know is that he was a part of Holy Wood, and they typically don’t like women.

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In fact, if you track the depiction of women in films and television, you’ll see it’s a history of giving women stronger and stronger roles in regards to their dominance over men. In the past the public was told Father Knows Best, but then came I Love Lucy. Shows like Maude and One Day At A Time followed, with Charlie’s Angels laying the groundwork for the teen heroine of The Hunger Games:

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Yep, folks, we’ve now entered a state of degeneration where young girls participating in gladiatorial combat is entertainment.

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Faster, pussycat! Kill! Kill!

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Throughout the last century, there appears to be a “redirection” of a rising feminine energy in the world. The evil ones couldn’t contain it, so they’ve redirected it subversively through movies and television to make women think they need to act like men to have power over them [when they’ve actually had it all along], and to make men less attracted to women [to take away this power women have had all along].

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Kim Kardashian doesn’t need to be part of the Illuminati to have power over me, she just needs to um…. I mean….

….I’m sorry, what point was I trying to make?

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One has to wonder… why now? I’m no history some bullshit story expert, but it seems to me that for thousands of years women were given allowed nothing, and then all of a sudden in the 20th century….. bam! Everything. Starting off with the right to vote:   

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But the reason for the vote suppression of women by the evil ones throughout some bullshit story is easy to understand – Women tend to be a bit more vocal and active with their conscience:

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So first the evil ones needed to make sure women were deeply programmed with the “proper” perception towards war and all the other bullshit men had been completely mind controlled with, so women would vote the “proper” way once they could:

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Yet oddly wonderfully enough, the more freedom and opportunity women were given….

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….the more clothing was taken away from them:

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(Personally… not a fan of the vulva thong. Nope. And doesn’t the tiny top make these women look like bodybuilders or something? Ladies, I’m predicting your next bikini will be a spool of sewing thread – but it will still cost you $60. )

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Up until the 20th century the evil ones had been keeping the powerful sexuality of women “under wraps”, so to speak. Then, starting after World War I, they collectively told men: “You think women are hot? You ‘aint seen nothin yet!”

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Enter the Flapper Girls:

(Think Girls Gone Wild but with the Charleston instead of stripper poles.)

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Yet before any of us men could yell out, “I love the 20th century!”, they took this greatly emerging feminine sexuality/energy and made it intimidating, scary, and sometimes confusing….

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You know what really goes with beautiful, topless dancing women? Death and Satanic imagery. Maybe even a little sexual self-doubt….?

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One of the most subversive directors in this regard was Ed Wood. He was distorting our perception of women, but not through “sexploitation” as assumed because he also made this film:

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Fortunately, Orgy Of The Dead does offer up a clue as to how the evil ones have been presenting/depicting the two persona manifestations of Satana:

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Lucy…

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…and Lily:

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Gentlemen, name your poison…

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Red or Black?

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Ginger or Mary Ann?

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Lucy or Ethel?

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Wilma or Betty?

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Or… in The Razor’s Edge…. Sophie or Isabel?

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In that film the Lucy persona was portrayed by Theresa Russell:

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And Lily by Catherine Hicks:

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But what’s the difference between the two personas, and how do they “test” men? Well, a good start is looking at how these two actresses were typecast in other roles.

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For Theresa, no further assessment is necessary:

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But Catherine on the other hand was given almost the opposite kind of roles, such as the protective, loving single mom from Child’s Play: 

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And the friendly, spunky whale biologist from Star Trek IV:

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How can this persona (Lily) be bad? And what “test” are she and Lucy giving to men?

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That can be easily explained through another film, Joe Vs The Volcano:

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In my opinion, since volcanoes evoke the creative feminine more than the destructive masculine, this rising feminine energy in the world can essentially be compared to an erupting volcano.

And we are certainly living in the age of volcanoes.

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Nonetheless, the film depicts a man who was once a confident and strong alpha male, but life had crushed his spirit and made him into a hypochondriac beta male. [I will cover alpha and beta males more in the next post of this series – I’m not done with you yet, Paul McCartney!] 

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On the surface, the story is about Tom Hanks reclaiming his manhood by jumping into a volcano – a plot description I don’t want to go into detail about because the actual story appears to be him reclaiming his manhood by being tested by three consecutively different women along the way to the volcano (all played by Meg Ryan).

But wait… what persona is the third woman?

That would be Eve, the way women were before all this social engineering of them during the 20th century.

I am starting to think the three personas is the reason we have the “blonde, brunette, redhead” meme repeated so often in pop culture [And always in that order] – They’re not simply differences in hair color, but the different personas of the women themselves.

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This may also be the reason we have “dumb blonde” jokes.

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A blonde represents not a “dumb” woman, but rather a simplistic one… Eve, the mate who replaced Lily in the garden of Eden after Jehova took control of humanity.

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In Joe Vs The Volcano, each test was simply Joe asserting his masculinity over each of the three women…. being a man.

The first was Eve:

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Joe had wanted to ask her out, but never had the courage until he thought he was going to die. Eve was a simple test, that being just simply asking her out… which he did very assertively [This happens right after the dialogue from the movie I wrote as my THE CALL OF VULCAN side bar item].

Failing the test would have been Joe staying with her (or sleeping with her) after realizing he wasn’t really that interested in her (or her being that interesting) simply because she was an “easy” conquest. A worse failure would be Joe using her “simpleness” to completely dominate her life and make her serve his every whim.

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The second was Lily (even though she had Lucy’s typical red hair):

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This character administered the Lily test (which I consider typically a test for beta males): A woman who is another “easy” conquest because she believes that being a whore is the only way to get a man in her life.

However, this test is a little more difficult because a Lily is looking for a mate, not just a lover, and is desirable enough to cause the man to possibly end up “pussy whipped”. Once that happens, once a man gives his dominant power and control of the relationship completely over to a woman, he is no longer a man. He is a slave to her whims, her direction. And again, a worse failure would be for the man to attempt to dominate through physical intimidation or violence.

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Every Little Thing She Does Is Magic is a song about Lily and a man who will do anything for her even though it may be detrimental to his own well being.

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living tiki personal note: I once had a co-worker named Tom. He only worked at my job for three days – After his girlfriend ruined his own self-business and put him 40 grand in debt, she called him at my work at least three times a day threatening suicide to get attention or stating (falsely) things like his mother had just died. Tom failed the Lily test.

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Failing the Lily test reveals an unspoken, sensitive, and increasing problem in our society today: Spousal abuse. No, no… not men abusing their women, but the opposite.

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Men must take the lead in a relationship, just like dancing. A woman is a ship, and a ship needs a captain to pilot her. That’s why men can never figure out what a woman is looking for in a man (unless she’s a gold-digger or acting upon programming) – She’s not basing her choice on any societal influences, but on who would make the best captain to guide her. Her choice means she could either become the Enterprise, or the Titanic.

And subsequently one gets into the touchy grey area of what constitutes physically dominating a woman (restraining her temper) and what constitutes abuse. A lot of men today have been programmed to believe that any physical controlling action is abuse.  They love their women and don’t want to hurt them in any way… and in turn they become the ones abused.

11 Famous Men Who Were Beat Down By Their Women

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Men rarely, if ever, report abuse by their mates. They will be ridiculed, or worse yet, be arrested even though they are the victim. It’s such a stigma, that someone made a website to let these men know they are not alone:

menwhoareabused.com

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Every little thing she does is magic

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The third female persona Joe encountered was the most difficult… Lucy:

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Her test was to see if Joe had what it took to move back from being a beta male to being an alpha male, because Lucy is a test solely for the alphas – Lucy would destroy beta males. And Joe’s test began the moment he met her at the docks (she was the captain of her own boat) and she stated calling him Felix.

“Nice hat, Felix!”

My name is Joe or Joseph!”

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She then proceeded to ask if he had slept with her sister (the Lily persona character Joe encountered earlier) to determine if he had “failed” the previous test.

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But the failure of alpha males in this test is not about asserting their masculine dominance [alphas do that already], but rather too much of it: Becoming a violently abusive male. Lucy tests men in this regard because she wants to know if her man can physically control her often wild behavior with temperance, but not lose control of themselves and dominate her with abuse. This abuse is usually the most violent – Lucy will fight back.

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But watch out alphas… ultimately you will never be able to “control” Lucy… only “guide” her passion.

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Lily or Lucy?

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As for me, considering that I am typically a beta male, I may have my own potential Lily test in the near future. She’s a single mom looking for a man to be her strength and comfort, and the only reason she and I haven’t gotten together is because we’re both really struggling to survive at the moment (I more than her, but she’s had the rent free “luxury” of moving back in with her mom).

But she will be calling….  I know she has set her sights on me. And when that happens, my test will be extremely difficult – This girl possess almost every physical and personality attribute that really turns me on (Seriously… whenever she has occasionally hugged me, I’ve had to painfully restrain from kissing and/or groping her).

Why am I holding back from happiness [happy penis]? Because I don’t want to fail the test before it even starts by beginning any sort of relationship being dependent upon her for anything (or everything). She needs a man, not a boy she can control.

And with her sweater pumpkins alone she can “persuade” me to do just about anything she wants at the moment.  

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tiki vs the volcano….

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Lily is smouldering….

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My next posting will focus on this Westworld reality I was talking about, but I’ll be walking the razor’s edge again soon enough….

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ONGOWA!

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Dammit Lily… stop it!

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~ by the living tiki on April 19, 2012.

11 Responses to “The Razor’s Edge (2): The Ballad Of Lily And Lucy”

  1. HOT DAMN!

    That was sweet man, Bravo!

    the Feminine Force is definitely rising
    and it’s the one of creative goodness that we need to help in her birth giving process,
    not the selfish, anally-fixated one that so many are drawn into and can’t seem to break their focus from…

    Be well Tiki,
    it sounds like things are looking up!

    Enjoy The Goddess We are Given!

  2. Great post mate, I really need to remember to stop by here more often. I thought I would share a few personal sync’s related to this. I was talking to my housemate the night before last, and she said she’d been invited by her friend to see a movie at our local rooftop cinema. The film – “Faster Pussycat, Kill Kill!”

    Yesterday, a former colleague sent me via email a link to the ‘Epic Sax Guy’ youtube loop (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KHy7DGLTt8g). I already knew what it would be (don’t know why!) before I clicked on the link. Later that day, I was invited to the rooftop cinema to see “The Lost Boys” (I know, gay jew crap). Then, in the first 10 minutes of that film, this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WuJ9YNfKC2o.

    I know that may seem a little unrelated, but having a sync related directly to that cinema happen, then to read this just after my housemate mentioning Faster Pussycat at that cinema when I hadn’t heard of that film in years is quite synchro.

    On top of that, there are 2 women I’m close to right now, and I’ll be damned if they’re not quite close to being a Lily and a Lucy. One is a black-haired, heavily tattooed 27yo girl with some personal issues probably related to being a bit too easy with men previously. We came quite close the other night, but she held out on me at the critical moment, so to speak. The other is a (recently dyed, which to me makes this MORE synchronisitc) red-haired, model-perfect looking 20yo, who is really making me work for it!

    I’m not quite sure what would constitute passing/failing either of these ‘tests’, but what can I say? I want them both.

    Looking forward to the next post!

  3. I am re-reading some of Edward de Bono’s work atm – so much sense. He talks of how our language imprisons us – ain’t that the truth. Without a doubt to make any decent sense you have to take days & weeks to pick over your thoughts, soak them until they are soft enough to work with them mix & knead & leave to rise, then rework them again. As this is a comment that’s not going to happen here – I desire very much to speak but even before the words come I feel I shall fail.

    That there has been a “rising feminine energy in the world” is unquestionable. That it is being manipulated to the ‘nth’ degree is indisputable.
    BUT what about the female energy that is being unleashed in a magnificent way? There is almost no attention given to that – what healthy women have to offer this planet makes hot sex pale in comparison.

    By studying the virtues of the ‘healthy/balanced’ feminine I have come to a playful conclusion so evil that many would probably want to stone me to death:
    That it was women who once this planet & men who were the later addition. In their ‘healthy’ state women would have welcomed men with open arms & shared & cared & taught him how to be human. Natural womanhood is so misunderstood – healthy women NEVER seek domination, that is a all male – we do not seek to be leaders, our strength comes through working together.

    In 1954 Ashley Montagu (a man) wrote a book he had spent 10 years contemplating – it has a title that would scare most men away & make idiot feminists think they had struck gold – “The Natural Superiority of Women” – the title refers to ‘superiority’ in its correct meaning as something that “maintains & consciously promotes life” – if this wold is to survive, it will be thro’ the women returning to their senses & becoming a million things greater than a hot bod in bed. There is so much work to do.

    For women to reclaim to their feet, they will have to reclaim their sexuality – & that sexuality will never be loosely given away. I also suspect that it will be as sporadic as a spring rains, but it will knock a man senseless. In nature the female’s body decides sex – when she is on heat, the call is made, it does not happen all the time – women were never meant to be on tap. I now think it is quite natural that healthy women get turned off men in relationships, especially once they have children, because that is their most potent role & once the children arrive they become the role of mother & humaniser to the child.

    Sorry I’ve gone on, don’t feel like you have to publish if it doesn’t feel right, I just had this huge urge to speak.

    • Lady Alex,

      From this moment on, you are no longer permitted to justify your comments on my blog. Should you absolutely feel compelled to use words such as “Sorry”, “Don’t feel like you have to”, or “If it doesn’t feel right”, you are henceforth only allowed to use the alternate phrase: “Thus spake the Oracle of Robinson.”

      This is a long reply. You deserve clarification.

      You intuition is correct in sensing my words (like yours) haven’t had enough prep time to be put in the kiln. This is due to my attention being pulled in a number of different directions during these strange days, not the least of which is occasionally having to work a little harder in coming up with the rent. I am running up a down escalator which (financially speaking) is ridiculously short to make it to the top where I can get off, take a moment to breathe, and head in the direction I want [exiting the bottom is not an option – it would be the end of me and this blog], yet the escalator has been my prison for a year because it keeps moving down faster and faster and faster.

      But being on the escalator, which is not allowing me to “live”, is at least offering me the opportunity to observe and reflect… on everything [I just need to type really fast before I’m at the bottom and have to run up again… and currently I’m dangerously close to stumbling off the bottom.] And what I’ve realized through observation is that this series (and this blog) I’m working on is needed. To again quote McCartney: “Ah, look at all the lonely people….”. I am one of them.

      All my previous musings combined with recent revelations about how much of our reality is a theater has made me realize that the center core of all this unnatural programming IS gender roles, relationships, and this rising feminine energy. If you think back, those issues were the real story Spielberg was presenting to us with Jurassic Park, not dinosaurs. These issues are being programmed (wrongly) into us in ways we haven’t even considered. And I can only examine the programming from a lifetime of being programmed.

      In regards to sex, this is what I’ve learned:

      As a man, I’m having to deal with a permanently attached dowsing rod that will still try to seek water, seasonal rains or not. I do believe it is a natural necessity for a man to always “be ready”, because a woman is in heat only so often, and when she says “now”, you better be able to say “Yes ma’am!” – It is a function of the survival of our species to insure insemination at optimum fertility. Yet for the man it is also a curse, because the energy charge of the dowsing rod is always being generated, always (stressfully) building up. It needs periodic release. That is the reason for the existence of prostitution and pornography, and – since our current reality is saturated with prostitution and pornography – a good indication of the energy charge level unnaturally being built up in men. All men. Those that respect, care about, and love women, and those that do not. I am reminded of a story told by a priest who needed to go downtown for something, but the only place to park was near where a couple of prostitutes were “working”. They of course approached his car and he preemptively told them, “Sorry, ladies… ” and held his collar out indicating he was a priest. Their reply: “So?”

      Here’s something else I learned:

      For reasons I can’t fully articulate at the moment I’ve found that when associating with women, whether they are just friends or potential lovers, if you do not let them routinely know in some way they are sexually desirable (which should be most healthy women), they will not respect you. Women ARE much, much more than just a hot bod in bed, but if you try to let them know that by “respectfully” focusing on that aspect of them the least (or not at all), they will think something is wrong with you. With all the whore programming these days (and the increase in men treating women only as a hot bod in bed), women are not realizing (or not caring) that there are men out there truly suffering as a result of this. Allow me to provide an example:

      I have an old work friend that I don’t see that often, but I consider him a good friend. He is a man in his mid-thirties who is kind, generous, funny, reliable, intelligent, and respectful. If he was in a relationship, the woman would definitely know she is loved and appreciated. Unfortunately, I think he still may be a virgin. Why? Women probably think that there is something wrong with him because his of interest in comics and anime, and even more so because this interest has turned bizarre in that he collects dolls from an animated girls cartoon, as well as artwork of sexy (and young looking) anime girls. But I know better – Because he truly does respect women (and has been programmed to think that regarding them sexually is “disrespectful”… Well, real ones), that is his only “release”. I was with him one time at the Comic Con I wrote about, and as we passed by a young girl (age undetermined, but with a very mature body in a very revealing superheroine outfit) I turned to him and remarked, “Oh my god did you see the tits on Starfire back there?” His reply (whispered): “Dude, don’t be a pervert.”

      Now you know why my blog goes topless sometimes. With similar programming I received in my youth, I could have easily been him [So this was not written in any judgement of him, but just to provide an example of the programming that chains us all.] I think it is almost necessary for me to be “perverted” periodically. I actually feel like I would be disrespecting women otherwise. Women are beautiful.

      But if you are dismayed thinking my love (or opinion) of women is purely physical and sexual, don’t worry – I have one last example which, in my thoughts, is maybe how a woman should be (and what is truly attractive about her). Perhaps she might even be a “magnificent” example of a positive manifestation of Gaia, rather than Lily or Lucy. I will simply call her “Sophie” (wisdom):

      Sophie is the girl I told you I was friends with, and REALLY wanted to sleep with, but she knew that by having sex it would change (or end) a good friendship [she also already had a boyfriend]. So instead, she would invite me to take a nap with her. Sophie knew as a man I needed release, especially around her. Prolonged physical proximity and contact, although not hot sex, does have it’s merits. Especially in a hammock.

      Sophie was a stunningly beautiful Asian woman [think Maggie Q] who could make men weak in the knees wearing hot pants and thigh high boots clubbing, or just a simple sun dress. She had many male friends and there wasn’t a man who didn’t love her. But not because of the reasons I just described, but because she perfectly fit my definition of a “woman” (which I gave in my Star Wars posts): An adult female that can make any male, from age 8 to 80, feel like a man.

      Sophie was very sensual, with a whispering voice to match. But this wasn’t a manufactured or forced personality… it was her natural state of being. She was like a cat purring on your lap, and being in her company always provided wonderful aromas, soothing music, and good food [either in an restaurant or cooked by her personally]. When she greeted you, she would give you an hour of “foreplay” in only two seconds: A hug, a kiss on the cheek, a caress in the small of your back, a tousle of your hair, and eyes and smile that were genuinely pleased to see you. Believe it or not, Sophie and I had very little in common – we just liked being in each other’s company.

      I honestly feel Sophie (oddly) wasn’t that interested in sex, and she definitely wasn’t a whore. But she was aware of the effect she had on men and maybe did sleep with a couple of male friends that couldn’t resist her [All of a sudden I didn’t see them around anymore in group get-togethers]. Sophie understood. But in doing so, since it would change/end the friendship, she essentially gave men an unspoken choice: Either a few hours in heaven, or many, many hours in the company of an angel. I chose the latter. I just wanted to be with her as much as possible. In return, I don’t have just one memory of sex I’ll never forget, I have many, many memories of a woman I’ll never forget [including seeing her topless… Sophie just innocently “forgot” there was a photo of her sunbathing in her vacation photos she was showing me. “Oops… how did that one get in there?”]

      Sophie understood.

      I guess I’ve been looking for someone like her ever since. Believe it or not, this girl who might be a potential Lily is very much like her in many ways, except her body. I have no idea what physique she has (She wears very bulky clothing, but it has been chilly). Well, actually, I had no idea… that is until she was “testing” me with the ‘ol “I’m fat” kind of talk. [She does have a mommy’s body… but a healthy mommy’s body]. Then she said, “See?” and pulled her loose top tight. My dowsing rod found water. But it’s always been pointing in her direction ever since.

      Take care, Lady Alex. You are beautiful.
      You too, Lady Kitty.

      • Hey Alex and Living Tiki,

        I have been thinking about this response for some time since reading your posts, Alex, on the male/female divide. This seemed like a good spot to comment, since the LT is writing on the same idea. My life for the last 30 years has been an in the field study of this topic (I have been married for 28 years, and have 10 children). Because I have been a stay at home wife and mother and not had my focus pulled outside of the family, I have been able to invest a fair bit of energy into trying to figure things out, and indeed, have considered it my responsibility to do so to the best of my ability. (And yet, I am still working on it – a result of having been raised in our unnaturally programmed Western culture, and being married to a man who was likewise raised.)

        I believe that the family is the basic building block of our cultures. It can be a place either where healthy adults are nurtured, or where damaged children are kept until they can be cast off. In order for children to internalize certain truths or virtues (loyalty, respect for the other sex, kindness, what is love), they need to see behaviours in action which demonstrate these concepts. That is where the mother’s and father’s relationship factors in. It is the first and most impactful example of the male/female dance that they will ever have. If children see respect being paid, or if they observe kindness as an habitual act, then it is that much easier for them to adopt these behaviours as their own. (Your example of the 6 ft. man being so caring of his 4 ft. something wife is such an excellent illustration of this.)

        In my opinion, every couple’s connection exists (or rather, needs to exist) on 3 levels – the physical, the emotional, and the spiritual. If one of these connections is cut, then there will be separation. Although the physical attraction is generally the first to make itself known, it can be the one that gets discarded as a marriage ages, which only leads to those basic needs for physical intimacy looking for other opportunities, whether that be through romance novels, or porn, or physical affairs. As for the emotional connection, Jane Austen comes to mind, My child, let me not have the grief of seeing you unable to respect your partner in life. I think possibly the spiritual is the one area where there is more give because it is about our spiritual nature, and not about religion, and in that area, I think we are always growing and learning. I guess in this instance, I would mean that your partner has to have a similar desire to continue to navigate creation in an effort to understand this life.

        (Not meant to be a criticism of single parent families. I think that is a possibility that is much closer to all of us married couples than we realize – I know from personal experience.)

        Thanks for the awesome blog, Tiki. I love it. I have been reading off and on for about 2 years now, but had never commented.

  4. What Alex said.

  5. Thanks mr tiki – that was not necessary & truly I was not dismayed at ‘you’ – “But if you are dismayed thinking my love (or opinion) of women is purely physical and sexual, don’t worry”. But you are right it was dismay, I didn’t know why it came out just there & then, maybe because I realised you are one of the few men around who would engage honestly in a discussion on this topic – what’s needed are men & women talking together not one or the other speaking/writing alone. I would enjoy a chance to speak further at some point. Your explanation about the dowsing rod – is just the kind of thing that women need to hear, to help break down the misunderstandings. I have wondered before if your rod (well not specifically ‘your’ rod) has other sensing abilities that are denied/hidden:

    “While Divining Rods tend to find water quite easily, they can be and are used to find just about anything your looking for. From misplaced items and lost treasures, to invisible energy fields and ley-lines”

    Imagine that! :]

    btw the latin name for divining rod “virgula divina”.

    As we both agree it is impossible to discuss such an important topic in short comments. I agree about the significance of the man/woman topic as central to the driving of this world. What angers me is the despicable tricks that have been used to keep the most natural friendship of male & female. apart.

    Truly no offence was meant, it was a cry of distress but not aimed at you, yet I knew you were a man who has heart & ears & had you chosen not to publish which you had every right to, I knew you would still have heard.

    Your friend Sophie sounds like a healthy woman.

    On a different note – I ‘know’ your current world. Financially I can look no farther than a few days ahead, my cupboards are doing a mother hubbard, yet I have changed, become very stubborn – my treat for a long time has been to get a coffee each day & no matter how bad things have got, I have continued to do that & I have this incredibly strong feeling that it’s that INTENTION to keep doing that come what may (& I’m ready to take down anything that tries to stop me) that somehow keeps the strangest coincidences, happenings, luck happening, so that every time it looks like ‘this is it’, something else happens. Also for a while now when I play with the idea of having something or find myself smiling at the thought of having something it simply turns up – never just as I’ve imagined, but fuck close enough to be amazing & I’m so far into beggars can’t be choosers that I just say thanks 🙂 Just wanted to pass that on – I know if I let freaking out about money take hold of me, I will fall – so I say fuck it & barge on ahead. I wish you great happiness with your friend.

  6. ps thanks Kitty, you brilliantly echoed my point – (healthy) women always work together to achieve change, they have no interest in domination or being the boss

  7. Damn Alex, you just completely explained everything so well once again,
    I don’t know how you do it, but so glad you can and do…!
    All I can add to this is that my 16 year marriage to my beautiful best friend Kiki only keeps getting better as we walk this path and we blossom together, though of course it has been bumpy at times!, and I hate to say ‘especially her’, because this has been a constant path of awakening for both of us, but to be the man who can bear witness to my beautiful wife completely turn into a juggernaut of creative beauty, smashing away the bullshit programming of the past, is something that cannot be reckoned with, I am here to serve her…ALL MEN truly are, and that is what they are seeking, most just don’t know, it thanks to the programming…
    when we truly get into the Gaian Flow with a wonderful Lady, and when we are able to be men in our respectable positions of being in servitude of love and protection of our own Lady Goddess, only good fruit will be had…and I am here to say that I am living proof of this ‘theory’ that we are all coming to realize is the way it should be and just is….
    it is an absolute honor knowing everyone of you and is so very beautiful in your own creative individual ways, I know all hard times will pass if we stay vigilant on this amazing journey which is quickly unfolding… I get all choked up just thinkin about it…! he he! bye!

  8. Thank you very much L.Tiki and Lady Alex.
    That was a beautiful and eye(s) opening exchange.

  9. Transcenddesigns:

    Thanks for the compliments and sharing your personal happiness. It’s partnerships like yours that let the rest of us know that not all hope is lost. You reminded me of seeing a married couple cross the street in front of my car in the rain. The 6 ft. something man was one pace behind holding the umbrella and regarding his 4 ft. something Asian wife like she was the Queen of England. The pleasant smile on his face told me she deserved it.

    *

    James B:

    Weird coincidence with Tura! Thanks for the links… I haven’t seen “Lost Boys” in quite a while and never realized how incredibly gay it is until I saw “epic sax guy”. Wow! Now I know why it showed Corey Haim [Ham core?] in the bathtub singing, “I ain’t got a man.” Good luck with Lily, Lucy, or both. I would say that Lily tests your relationship skills, whereas Lucy tests your endurance skills.

    *

    Kitty:

    A guy would regard you as a wingman, but that’s just another way Hollywood is falsely portraying women these days [I’ve seen numerous movies with the cheerleader and her ever present wingwomen meme]. The real truth is you’re a blast from the past – the way women used to be… how they got together while the men were away and worked, talked, raised the kids, helped each other, and weaved bonds in the community. Thanks for joining in!

    *

    Alex:

    If Gaia had a spokeswoman, that would be you. Perhaps She is actually manifesting in you personally… that’s why I always value your opinion and insights. But my this topic sparks discussion and passion! Too much for a fragmented series and an overwhelmed tiki. I need to wait a little before continuing to take my typical meandering investigation a bit further (and rework the prior posts). And you are correct – I need to provide a positive antithesis of Lily and Lucy… perhaps Sophie will be one. I just know a change is badly needed in my local area: The single women all hate each other, the single moms are going insane, and recently I found out that domestic physical abuse now happens in lesbian relationships too.

    Nice info on divining rods! Maybe my brain is actually doing something right. Hmmm… I wonder if mens’ “rods” choose which “water” they want to point to in a way not influenced by the five senses. Yes, further discussion about my rod is absolutely necessary. Perhaps some field tests too.

    All the best to you my friend.

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